Complete Worship Service on Mental Illness

An example from St. Matthias United Methodist Church, Stafford County, VA
October 14, 2001 
Pastor - Rev. Dr. Frankie L. Perdue

The Entrance

Prelude and Gathering
Praise Chorus         "We Are Called" 
(Insert)

Greeting        
L:  Sing to the Lord, who is on your side!
P:  We shall sing to the Lord,  who deals bountifully with us.

Hymn:   "Praise to the Lord, the Almighty"           139 (UMH)

Passing the Peace

Announcements, Joys & Concerns, Prayers of the People

L:  The Lord be with you. 

P:  And also with you. 

L:  Let us pray

Prayer

Children's Time

Proclamation & Praise    

Psalter Psalm 13                                      746 (UMH)

L: How long, O Lord? Will you forget me for ever?

P: How long will you hide your face from me?

L: How long must I bear pain in my soul, and have  sorrow in my heart all the day?

P: How long shall my enemy be exalted over me?       

L: Consider and answer me, O Lord my God;        

P: lighten my eyes, lest I sleep the sleep of death;        

 L: lest my enemy say, "I have prevailed over him";        

P: lest my foes rejoice because I am shaken.        

L: But I trusted in your steadfast love;        

P: my heart shall rejoice in your salvation.        

L: I will sing to the Lord         

P: for the Lord has dealt bountifully with me.            

Affirmation of Faith          

"A Statement of Faith of the United Church of Canada" (UMH)  
We are not alone, we live in God's world.        
We believe in God:
who has created and is creating,
who has come in Jesus, the Word made flesh,
to reconcile and make new,           
who works in us and others by the Spirit.        
We trust in God.        
We are called to be the church:           
to celebrate God's presence,           
to love and serve others,           
to seek justice and resist evil,           
to proclaim Jesus, crucified and risen,              
our judge and our hope.        
In life, in death, in life beyond death,           
God is with us.        
We are not alone.        
Thanks be to God.       Amen  

Special Music           "Let Me Find You"     
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When my thoughts are all entangled like a thin golden chain,
And my words come out too happy, trying hard to hide my pain,                              
When all the world's in sunshine, and I'm in the storm again.                              
God of peace, let me find my peace in you.                                
When my mind won't let me rest because of all the yesterdays                              
That hang around to haunt me, and make me feel afraid,                              
When I can't see any future, when I cannot face today,                              
 God of hope, let me find my hope in you.                                  
God of life, let me find my life in you,                             
Tell me you feel the hurt I've been goin' through.                                  
When my heart beats only strong enough to keep my body warm,                              
And the tears of other people just remind me of my own,                              
When I've forgotten how to let you hold somebody with my arms,                                
God of love, let me find my love in you.                                
God of life, let me find my life in you,                              
Tell me you feel the hurt I've been goin' through.                              
Deep down I know you love me, but I don't know why you do,                              
God of life, let me find my life in you.                              
Let me find you.  

Prayer (In unison)    see Mental Illness Awareness bulletin insert          
O Lord, you have searched us and known us        
You know when we sit down and when we rise up,           
and know our innermost thought.        
You search out our paths and know all our ways.        
Before we speak you know our words.        
When we were knit together in our mother's womb        
You knew us as woman, as child, as man.        
Wherever we go, Your hand will lead us.        
So guide us along the pathways to hope,           
that night becomes bright as day.        
So lead us on our walk together,           
that darkness is lifted from our hearts.        
So encourage us that our sisters and brothers           
who have mental illness shall know that           
they never walk alone.   Amen.  

The Word                                     Isaiah 38:9-16      
This is the writing of Hezekiah king of Judah, when he had been sick and had recovered from his sickness:I said, "In the prime of my life I shall go to the gates of Sheol;I am deprived of the remainder of my years."  I said, "I shall notsee YAH, the Lord in the land of the living; I shall observe man no more among the inhabitants of the world.  My life span is gone,Taken from me like a shepherd's tent; I have cut off my life likea weaver.  He cuts me off from the loom;  From day until night Youmake an end of me.  I have considered until morning-- Like a lion,so He breaks all my bones; From day until night You make an end of me.  Like a crane or a swallow, so I chattered; I mourned like a dove; My eyes fail from looking upward. O Lord, I am oppressed; Undertake for me! "What shall I say? He has both spoken to me, And He Himself has done it.  I shall walk carefully all my yearsin the bitterness of my soul.  O Lord, by these things men live;And in all these things is the life of my spirit; So You will restore me and make me live.          

L: The Word of God for the People of God.        

 P: Thanks be to God.  

Message:                "Restored Life"             
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Response

Hymn    "Because He Lives"                                    364 (UMH)  

Presentation of Our Gifts to God  

Offertory    special music "Forever"     
[Words and music by Dan McGowan.  From the "Worship Today"  volume "Have a Faith."   Worship Today Music Service, c. 2001  by Dan McGowan. www.WorshipToday.com 1-800-992-2144,  c. 2001 CRI. Canton, OH]            
  "The love of the Lord will last forever."  

Doxology    "Praise God, from Whom All Blessings Flow"       95 (UMH)  

Going Forth to Serve  

Hymn    "Something Beautiful" (sung 3 times)              394 (UMH)  

Dismissal with Blessing  

Praise Benediction      "The Lord Bless You and Keep You"    
                Insert

Postlude       

  L = Leader reads;  P = People read;   UMH = United Methodist Hymnal 

 "Restored Life"
by Rev. Dr. Frankie Perdue
Preached at St. Matthias UMC on October 14, 2001
Mental Health Awareness Sunday
Sermon notes paraphrased
Isaiah 38:9-16

We are not like the pink Energizer bunny that keeps going and going.  There are times when life depletes us.  When our bodies are depleted, our bodies and our minds are affected.  

The words of King Hezekiah in the book of Isaiah indicate that he finds himself in a place of depletion.  Some have suggested he was suffering from depression.  He sees himself in a hopeless, dark situation.  He feels isolated; he can't sleep; he is distressed over what life has dealt him.  

Depression, a form of mental illness, is not uncommon. According to the U.S. Surgeon General one out of five persons will experience some form of mental illness in their lifetime.  

We should be aware that there are persons who can't shake the gloom and doom of their thoughts, who may have periodic times of irrational thought, who experience phobias and fears.  Some persons are so debilitated that they cannot function normally.  

Some become so filled with pain that they look at suicide as a solution.  Their irrational thought and emotional pain have taken away their desire to live. We must learn how to pick up the signs of those in this condition and know what to do about it.  

For some persons, there is a genetic link to mental illness.  The brain's chemical balance has been upset and medication is necessary, possibly dietary modifications and even a certain amount of sunlight each day to help them function.  

(The pastor continued on to share some stories.  He talked about the importance of having caring people to see to it that the person with a mental illness gets diagnosis and treatment.)  

Learning to laugh again can be part of good mental health therapy.  

Mental illness is simply a disease, treatable and controllable, if not fully curable.  And in many, it is fully curable if detected early and treated.  

As Christians, we are given the command to "bear one another's burdens."  When someone can't carry their own load for a time, we help them to do it.  That "load" can be physical, financial, and it can be emotional.  

Some ways we can help to carry other's burdens is to simply "be there" for people in mental distress.  To genuinely and without a judgmental attitude, listen to them.  To gently and lovingly care for and about them. We don't have to have all the answers.  We can accept one another, even when emotionally distraught or dealing with phobias, or depression, or irrational thinking, or anxieties we can't explain or fully understand.  We can help by being a sounding board and assisting that person to realize they momentarily aren't thinking clearly or rationally right now.  We can help them see that getting help is a good thing to do.  We can help by referring them to persons specially trained to help with mental illness issues. We might help by making the first appointment or driving them to their appointment.  We can help by reassuring them that medications can help them function.  It isn't any different from taking pills for high blood pressure or diabetes.  We can help by reassuring them that GOD is still with them, even if they can't sense it or perceive it to be so in their current condition.  We can help by affirming to them that they are not alone.  

The words of King Hezekiah in Isaiah indicate he knew what it was to be in the depths of despair and writhing with mental illness.  His words are recorded for others to be fully aware of his struggles and of how he asked God to restore him to health.  

Look around us.  In the midst of our busy lives, God may use us to help someone with a mental illness begin the process of coming to restored life.  We need to be loving, kind and pro-active when we find someone so struggling.  We need to refer that person to those most able to help them find their way out of "the Dark Night of the Soul."  Help them to say, as King Hezekiah said, "Restore me...and make me to live!" And it is God's desire for us to "Restore us..and make us to live!  Thanks be to God.  

Those with ears to hear, let them hear what the Spirit is saying to the Church.  Amen.